In the thread right before the banning took place, I
was explaining how I didn’t start off life as some rabid materialist: for a
time, I even believed in supernatural
things. And, as I said on the thread, one of the reasons I don’t believe in
this stuff anymore is that I wised up and realized that daydreams and
subjectively trusting how it all feels to me doesn’t demonstrate the actual
existence of “powers” or “other worlds.
This prompted a question from my interlocutor: “How did you go about ‘wising up’? What was your
process of ‘realization’?
He follows this up with speculation about me, musing
that perhaps I was “not able to manifest results and so [I] determined that
results are not manifestable.” Ah, classic believer script "you aren't doin' it right!"...
The question he asked, though, is a really good one,
and one I’m not sure I’ve written about on the blog before. My response to him
resembled an answer I gave to a similar question elsewhere on those forums, so
for this post, I’m editing my responses together to give as comprehensive an
answer (and hopefully as instructive an answer) as possible.
Read on for my answer to this question.